There is a story like this in Tao Te Ching. When we are boating or rowing on the river, if an empty boat comes from the other side and collides with it, we don't say anything. When a boat with people comes and crashes into it, it makes a displeased sound. Why? Because there are people on board. People don't blame the empty boat But they get angry and make noise at boats with people on them. Because ’I‘ am in my boat, it is always noisy. What if I become an empty boat? If we e